Trusting Your Memories of Sexual Abuse

BY KALI MUNRO, M.Ed., Psychotherapist, 2001 ACKNOWLEDGING THAT YOU WERE SEXUALLY ABUSED It can take a long time for survivors to be able to say that they know for sure that they were sexually abused. Acknowledging that the abuse happened is an important step in...

Sexual Abuse Survivors and Sex

BY KALI MUNRO, M.Ed., Psychotherapist, 2001 Many sexual abuse survivors struggle to have positive and enjoyable sex lives. It can be very hard to feel comfortable with and enjoy sex when you’ve been sexually abused. Even people who haven’t been sexually...

Mother–Daughter Sexual Abuse

BY KALI MUNRO, M.Ed., Psychotherapist, 2000. Sexual abuse perpetrated by mothers on their daughters is an uncomfortable subject for many people. It defies everything we believe, or want to believe, about women and mothers. Most people don’t want to believe that...

Sexual Feelings During Abuse

BY KALI MUNRO, M.Ed., Psychotherapist, 2004, 2012. Many sexual abuse survivors have trouble dealing with the fact that their body was sexually stimulated and felt aroused during the abuse. They may feel guilty and ashamed that they responded to the stimulation, and...