Why is it that lesbians have such a hard time with dating? You know, going out with one or more women, maybe having sex, and not having to arrive at any permanent or long-term decisions about the nature of the relationship.

Do you think that it is possible to be lesbian and sexually attracted to men? What about lesbians who have sexual fantasies that include men?

Many of us, when we first come out, are drawn to the lesbian community with the dream of finding an all-embracing, welcoming community.

Why is it that lesbians can neglect or forget their friends when they get into a relationship?

Remember growing up and hearing the word “pervert”? Nobody wanted anything to do with them – they were the “sick and demented” people whom everyone despised.

At one time or another most of us have heard or spoken the juicy words, “guess who so-and-so is seeing?” and “did you hear that so-and-so are breaking up?”

This question is asked not only by people who are unhappy or uncomfortable with their sexuality, it is also asked by people who are very happy, accepting, and proud of their sexuality.